Vaccination Decisions - Who Should You Trust?

Most parents want to trust their pediatrician. We noBoth doctors are convincing. Both speak with authority
longer live in extended families. Moms and grandmasand present information you struggle to assimilate.
frequently live far away so when Johnny gets sick,Which guidelines should you follow? Which doctor
instead of consulting with those close to us who haveshould you trust?
taken care of sick kids, we confer with our doctor.Quite frankly, you shouldn't trust either at face value.
Most pediatricians are well meaning and want to doYou should trust your intuition, your gut feeling, your
what they feel is in the best interest of children's health.own internal guidance system. Sit quietly and privately,
However, when it comes to vaccination, pediatricianssee how you "feel" when you consider vaccination.
often go beyond helpful suggestions; they resort toWhat does it feel like when you look at your precious
fear tactics. Parents are told frightening, "worse casebaby and know that injections are planned at the next
scenario" stories of a child who had seriousdoctor visit? What does it feel like to think about not
complications from a childhood illness such as measles,vaccinating? If both feelings are neutral or confusing,
mumps or chickenpox. The children who recoveredyou need more information. If both feelings are equally
uneventfully are never mentioned. The pressure tostrong and negative, examine your fears. Do you
vaccinate can escalate and sometimes results inunderstand the real risks of the disease you want to
threats. Intimidated and believing the "doctor knowsprevent? Do you know the real risk of the vaccine?
best," the injections proceed.When one feeling is definitely stronger than the other,
Then you begin to read articles and books by doctorsthat is your instinct talking.
who have discovered problems with vaccines.Moms know when something is not right with Johnny,
The information about vaccine dangers is not opinioneven when he is not in sight. That's intuition. On the
but represents thousands of hours of research,other hand, mothers have cried while their child was
documenting facts even most pediatricians don't know.being vaccinated, praying that "nothing would go
The information tackles mainstream thinking aboutwrong." That's going against intuitive sense.
vaccines head on. Importantly, the information isWe have abdicated our personal power to
presented with detailed references. This new dataprofessionals, particularly doctors, even though the
causes feelings of confusion. It is radically differentmedical industry has failed us miserably in many ways.
from what has been generally accepted aboutParents, it's time to take back your power. Trust what
vaccination for more than two hundred years:you feel when considering vaccination. Know that you
"Vaccines are safe, effective, protective and cause noare intelligent and capable of reading and then
harm." You spend hours researching both sides of theunderstanding the risks vs the benefits. The more you
argument to determine which doctor is telling the truth,listen to that "voice within," the louder it becomes. It is
which information is correct. You struggle, you argue,the best test of the vaccine information you hear.
and you often feel very conflicted.